Am I Ready?
At the turn of the century, one of the glossy magazine came out
with 100 things you should do before the end of the century.
I thought I was pretty square; however, I did read through
and discovered I had done all but three.
That's not quite correct.
I've never driven down the coast in a red convertible
but I have ridden down the interstate in a convertible with the
top down. Those who know me know that cruising the coast
is one of my great joys.
Does that qualify?
Friday, January 27, 2017
“Take time for yourself,” I tell caregivers. The usual response is a shrug of the shoulders and a ‘How?”Some recognize the need to take care of self. Others never see the need because they are so busy being a martyr taking care of everyone but self. It does not make an impression when I mention, “If you go down, who takes over?” These caregivers assume they are invincible, like teenagers, they believe they can handle anything that comes along. I stand in awe of them. When they fall, I hope there is someone to help get them back on their feet so they can go back to their passion with a new attitude.
For me, I found that I could make it six months going full tilt. Now that I am a bit older, I give out a lot sooner. Like on an airplane, you are told if the cabin looses pressure, put on your own mask. What will it take to make you realize that you cannot do it all? Maybe I can give you some hints to help make your life better, even if you don’t think you need it. Give it a read. You cannot be on duty 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It is not possible. You have to sleep sometime. You need to rebuild yourself so you have something to give. If your bucket is empty, you have nothing to give to the one you care for. Replenish yourself. So you don’t feel you can take off an afternoon, can you manage ten minutes? Get up early in the morning and take some time for yourself. Make you feel better? Then find other ten minute segments to take as your own.
Thursday, January 26, 2017
We walked into a restaurant in the community where my husband was born.
I noticed he fit right in with the farmers gathered around the tables drinking coffee
and chatting. With their work boots and cowboy hats to shade them from the glaring
Kansas sun, you could tell they spent a lot of time outdoors. A few had caps on but all
shared a common lifestyle. My husband even drove a pickup. This place represented the life he led.
What about me? I didn’t dress like the few women in the place. I don’t own a pair
of blue jeans. Where do I belong?
Saturday, January 14, 2017
People argue about the strangest things. I remember watching a TV show where the husband and wife were arguing about which way the toilet paper should roll, up or down. They even included other people in the argument. It got to the point of ridiculousness. If all you worry about is which way to put the toilet tissue on the holder, you have no worries. Still we as humans want to be right.
Bud and I had a disagreement about a stop light. He said it was a certain way.
I knew he was wrong and said so. Then I got to thinking about it. I discovered two things:
1. How could I prove him wrong?
The light had been changed so there was no way to prove either of us correct.
2. In the grand scheme of things, what difference did it make?
My younger brother gave me some advice: “Pick your battles.” Amazing since he did not have kids and he was always picking fights; I knew he was right. Let the small stuff slide and don’t compromise on the big stuff.
Tuesday, January 3, 2017
My husband’s great aunt had two sons that led a rather exciting existence. If I mention their names, would you consider their backgrounds before you jumped to conclusions? They were noted for taking things that did not belong to them but the reason they did would at least help you understand.
I know just a few people in the Bible where we are presented with the back story: Moses, Joshua, David, Samson and Paul. There really aren’t many named. Knowing their past lets you see how God can use each of us to accomplish His purpose.
10 times they put me to the test. Numbers 14: 22
Thursday, December 15, 2016
Friday, December 9, 2016
TO DO LIST
I have a to-do list, things that I need to accomplish.
Problem is that after I take one thing off the list, it seems I add three more.
I wonder what would happen if I ditched my to-do list and did things as they needed to be done.
I know, there is not enough time to do all that needs to be done so one must put some things off
What if I added fun things on my to-do list?
Watch the sunset, drink a glass of tea with a friend or call and tell my family they are loved.
To-do list may be necessary but include what makes you feel good as well.